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Reclaiming Masturbation: Part 4 - The Healing Power of Pleasure

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Reclaiming Masturbation: Part 4 - The Healing Power of Pleasure

Pleasure! Pleasure! Pleasure!

What is it about the word "Pleasure" that causes so many of us to pull back, to hide in shame, and cower in fear? For some of us, pleasure denotes judgment. Pleasure is something we are not supposed to do. So many of us have surrendered and committed to a life of struggle, hardship, and angst. And a life void of even the slightest pleasures, truly causes life to be no more than an endurance test. But that is not what it's supposed to be! There is more, much, much more!

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Reclaiming Masturbation: Part 2 - More Tricks of the Trade!

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Reclaiming Masturbation: Part 2 - More Tricks of the Trade!

Welcome to May, the National month of Masturbation!

A few days ago a dear friend of mine asked, "Garland, why are you writing about how to masturbate? Masturbation's been around as long as man's been on the planet!"

We both laughed 'cause his question is a legitimate one. Why write about something that, arguably, billions of people have engaged in for ages; putting hand or device to penis or vagina, stimulate until orgasm/ejaculation, the end. Of course his question insinuates that EVERYONE knows how to masturbate. Like, duh?

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Reclaiming Masturbation: Part 1

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Reclaiming Masturbation: Part 1

I discovered masturbation in 1993 at the age of 11. From what I have gathered, this is not unaccustomed for boys my age. One day you discover the intense feelings of penile self-pleasure and the next, you have a friend for life! Unfortunately, like so many others, I was derailed from fully being able to explore and embrace this new found pleasure without guilt, shame, and religious judgment.

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